NOBODY IS COMING TO SAVE YOU - The Mother Wound, Self Love & Emotional Freedom | 21
Nobody Is Coming to Save You explores the mother wound, emotional maturity, childhood approval, self love, nervous system healing, and why true freedom begins when we stop waiting for external rescue. A transmission on boundaries, belonging, embodiment and becoming the love you've been searching for.
TRAUMA, EROS & MASCULINITY - Michael Jeffrey on Healing, Presence & Power | 20
What happens when men reconnect with their bodies instead of trying harder?
In the very first guest episode, I sit down with somatic counsellor Michael Jeffrey to explore trauma, masculinity, embodiment, sexuality, eros, leadership and what it really means to become fully alive.
Together we explore:
• Why trauma creates disconnection
• Why disconnection is actually an intelligent adaptation
• Healthy masculinity beyond patriarchal conditioning
• Circumcision trauma and men's sexuality
• Presence as the path back to life
• Ecopsychology and why everything is connected
• The relationship between power and sexuality
• What true leadership feels like in the body
• The importance of pacing in healing
• How men begin reconnecting with themselves
If you've ever wondered why achievement isn't enough...
why intimacy feels difficult...
or how to reconnect with yourself...
this conversation is for you.
WHY YOU CAN'T LET THEM GO - Projection, Love & The Parts of Yourself You Get To Claim | 19
You think you're grieving the person. But what if you're grieving the version of yourself that came alive beside them?
In this field note, I let you in on one of the most transformative relationships of my life, not as a love story, but as a lesson in projection, embodiment, longing, and identity. We often believe another person holds the life we want, the confidence we crave, the intimacy we miss, or the future we're dreaming of. Yet the people who change us most are often mirrors, reflecting parts of ourselves waiting to be reclaimed.
This essay explores projection in relationships, leadership, business, and personal growth, revealing why we chase certain people, opportunities, and dreams, and how to stop outsourcing your aliveness. The research dives into why projection feels like love, the psychology of longing and attraction, how relationships mirror unlived parts of ourselves, why business, money, and success become projection screens, and how to reclaim the qualities you believe someone else possesses.
If you've ever wondered why you can't let someone go, this transmission might change the question entirely.
HIPS DON’T LIE | What Your Body Is Holding Onto - Tension & Erotic Intelligence | 18
Hips don't lie. Most high performers think tight hips are a flexibility problem. Yes, and: The body stores stress, grief, heartbreak, fear and control long after the mind believes it has moved on.
In this transmission, Flora Petri explores the connection between tension, trauma, breath, nervous system regulation and erotic intelligence.
What if your hips aren't the problem? What if they're carrying the story?
MAY I FEEL YOUR HAND FOR MY OWN PLEASURE? Erotic Intelligence, Consent & Embodied Leadership | 17
Most touch comes with a hidden agenda. Touch to get somewhere, to achieve an outcome, to receive validation, reassurance, connection, or sex.
In this Field Note, Flora Petri explores touch as communion rather than conquest through Thai Yoga Massage, Dr. Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent, and embodied leadership. Discover how intimacy changes when presence becomes the point, how consent creates clarity, and why touch without agenda might be one of the most revolutionary practices available to modern leaders.
For high performers ready to move beyond performance and into genuine connection, pleasure, presence, power and aliveness.
YOU’VE BEEN HOLDING YOUR BREATH FOR DECADES: Breathwork, Nervous System & Erotic Intelligence | 16
Are you holding your breath right now, in this moment? We live in world that has forgotten how to breathe. It is safer this way. A world where holding your breath feels safer than breathing beyond your collar bones. Where shallow, rapid breathing signals your brain that you are in danger. And that forever keeps the sympathetic nervous system on high alert. The cycle is reciprocal and viscious: stress causes shallow breathing, and shallow breathing reinforces the stress. High performers hold their breath. Shallow chest breathing means survival mode. Never fully exhaling means never fully feeling safe. A full exhale asks to completely let go, to surrender, to release control, to trust that the next breath will fill you up with fresh air. But we hold on to that last little bit as if no new breath was ever to come. The body eternally stays braced, ready, performing.
THE BODY KNOWS BEFORE THE MIND: Erotic Intelligence & Embodied Leadership | 15
A reflection on Burning Man, nervous system intelligence, embodiment, desire, intimacy, and learning to trust the body before the mind catches up. Exploring erotic intelligence and embodied leadership with Flora Petri.